To Be Free
The Happiness of the Self is Based on the Balance Between Parent and Child – Mind and Heart.
Our emotions can be like a petulant child when it isn’t in the loving care of a mature mind; the intellect. So, is the emotionally driven child running your life or the stoic mind of a parent.
Well, there is another choice. That is one of a mature loving and wholesome relations between the heart and mind. This is a synergistic relationship between the heart and mind which develops the higher mind of wisdom; the intellect. The intellect is honorable and lovingly developed from its understanding of absolute truth with-out prejudice . Absolute-True always allows for healthy mature decisions, which make for a healthier and happier life. If not in that moment the understanding of it will surface over time. Truth is the factor here which is known for being grounded in maturity and the truth of love itself. It’s not skewed in the selfishness of egoic beliefs, but in being just. This justness is an aspect of having total regard for all of life, which is the foundational aspect of self-respect.
Self-respect is key in our personal growth; our evolution of the self. It is essential for the synergy needed to merge the heart and mind in a harmonios unit. We have to learn to be honest with ourselves in order to reveal the truth about our self. Good or bad as it may be, at least we can understand the causes of our behavior. Self-respect allows us to nurture ourselves beyond the pain, hurt, embrassment, etc. of our flaws. We can then recognize these flaws are an misunderstanding of the facts of life. So, as we allow ourselves to honestly identify them we can change them through honest, not egoic, self-nuruting. The type of nurturing which builds strength of character.
Strength of character is the combination of a healthy and mature heart and mind working together synergistically . Be patient with yourself in appreciation for all you have to face in life. We don’t always have many of the answers, so we make mistakes. It is a mature mind and a loving heart which realizes mistakes we make can be the needed form of a great lesson for us to learn from. This is maturity forged in self-appreciation. The appreciation we can gain for ourselves through the acceptance of the moments where life has come to help us grow through its endless unfolding lessons. Which sometimes also have the pain we bring from resisting them .
More on this topic coming in the next post.
Self-Respect is a Unique Power
The Importance of Self-Respect part I
Do you respect yourself? It is so very easy to say you do, but do you actually respect yourself sincerely? Perhaps it’s that you’re only thinking honestly about it now. It’s most likely not many of us even rarely consider this important question of self-respect. And without truly understanding what it is to experience self-respect, it is often taken for granted. We tend to just go about our lives focus on what’s happening out there, outside of ourselves.
Were consistently questioning why things are happening in seeming disregard to our personal lives. Our thinking in this way is due to our dependence on respect coming from outside ourselves. Not the nurturing respect which is born from within us. We may not even consider our lack of tolerance for life is all about us forgetting about this inner experience of the power of self-respect. It seems like we spend a good portion of our time pursuing respect from others and even from life itself as we complain. Respect from others is not a need which is primary in life, not even needed secondarily. To tolerate life and its challenges it’s respect for the self which is primary and when we gain this power there’s no need to complain.
The truth of it is, the only place we can really experience the power within the conscious experience of respect is when we’re supporting ourselves consciously. That is when we’re respecting ourselves. Then and only then can we be more accepting of life and others, the way it is, and the way they are. It is then all of life reflect the value of respect we are mirroring from ourselves.
If we are looking exclusively to get the experience of respect from others, and we’re not supporting that outer level of respect from the space of self-respect; we are living in the shadow of falsehood. We then become dependent on those outside relationships with others for the core of the experience of our experience of respect. Gaining self-power wont happen this way. Attachment to them for respect will not create true respect. Self-respect is the prerequisite for all respect and is the foundation for all personal growth. Self-respect is a guide for evolving consciously through life. Why you ask? Self-respect, in particular, allows us not to fall into the need to play the role of a victim. This is due to the respect being a multifaceted power which carries with it a degree of self-protection that comes from a level of self-wisdom; a partner of self-respect. This wisdom, this level of understanding, is the essence of the experience of self-respect which provides self-care.
Without owning respect, which makes it self-respect, we have lost ourselves into the chaos of life without the foundation needed to discern the value of our experiences brough to us through life and others. Therefore, it can be said, to own self-respect is to find our own core power which has been lying dormant due to believing respect can only come from outside of yourself. This is a great illusion which causes much of or pain and sorrow.
Can you Hear all the ways you are Talking to You?
Can You Hear You?
Can you hear you or even more importantly, are you even listening to you? I’m not talking about the background noise of the constant running of the miles of loops of tape you have going through your subconscious mind. No, not that, although that’s important too, but more important than that alone. I’m talking about the whole of you, the complete entire you. To be hearing all of you come from using your consciousness along with your natural innate discerning power. So, you needed to learn to hear more deeply so you may honor the individual voices of the whole of yourself as a whole unified individual powerful personality.
To be hearing all of you and to know what you are hearing is the best way to honor yourself. To give regard for yourself. This mean to make the choice to slow the self down enough to have a greater regard for the self; taking the time to be quietly with the self. Truly you are your one and only home. How often are you there with yourself; home? Remember what all that you are experiencing is life’s flow outside of you. Outside of your home.
You must take the time if you are to make the time for being quietly with yourselves. This usurped time will allow you hear more deeply by focused loving listening and caring hearing what you are telling yourself. Hearing what you are listening to is a skill most of us don’t care to have or learn. When you start hearing you realizes the ways you haven’t been listening and for how long you have not been listening to your constantly calls to pay attention to yourself. Trying to get our self to listen isn’t such an easy task. It takes a degree of consciousness to achieve it.
Who are we talking about you listening to? To you, your whole entire you, listen to all of the aspects of your entire “self”. It Would appear you have not yet learnt to listen. Well, that is you have not yet learned how to pay attention to and heed the words of the you you’re listing to. First you must learn to listen before you can begin to hear.
TK Jackson
Forgiveness is Another Name for Genie
Forgiveness is like a Genie hidden in the darkness of the lamp of your Subconscious mind. Waiting in stillness and in silence for your rubbing of surrender so she may release the suffering from the hurt you hold within your closed heart. It glows, forgiveness does, it speak its call of healing light offering conscious blessing. Asking sweetly to be allowed it to flow freely (for the fragrance of forgiveness can only be of sweetness) and become a part of the flow of your consciousness of life. When this decision is made to nurture the pain and hurt providing the suffering within the heart, the genie of “Forgiveness” will always appear.
Then The “Genie of Forgiveness” is released and begins to fulfil its healing love for you. Forgiveness is the loving genie within the lamp of “Loving Surrender”. It is within your consciousness as a choice for healing with your own love for yourself. The surrender is to yourself and for yourself. How intimately funny this that. We surrender to our own love for the self to the self, and the care of the self. It would only make sense for this to be the way. It seems like it meant to naturally. That is, we would choice to have regard for the love we hold for our “Self”.
We are the Flux and Flow of the Energy of Life; Consciousness Itself.
We are, and everything is patterns of the flux and flow of energy dancing through consciousness displays of a form. Every thought, every feeling, every word, and every action is a choice vibrational pattern of sound, feelings, or picturesque energies of a multitude of images of some mood. It is these energies, this interconnective web of vibration patterns, like an orchestra with experienced experiential instrument sounding vibrations to define our individual yet joined realities – a uni-verse of creation as colors, sounds, and actions. We, and every each on of us are responsible for the realies of life.
The Energy of Forgiveness is the Nurturing Flow of Self-Love
The energy of forgiveness is innate in all of us. It lies dormant in the creative flow of the consciousness of love. Therefore as you increase you ability to love you increase your ability to forgive naturally. The world is now becoming blind to the truth of love. This innate power come as a gift from those who are willing to love without restriction. Forgiveness enlivens love to heal. All the love we each express is colored by the manner in which we are nurtured by our ability to love and care for ourselves. Loving brings the self into the conscious light of a more complete form of our higher self. From the smaller, constricted, and more shut-down and fearful-self.
Consciousness holds all our unlimited powerful potential of which forgiveness is one. Love is the consciousness which unfolds forgiveness to be gifted to the self and the world. As a potential of consciousness, the energy of forgiveness acts like real and honest magic as it unfolds a greater aspect of the forgiver. Evolving that individual sight beyond the limitated vision of the hurtful world and what they have falsely imagined to be their self as a victim. This magic is of the healing consciousness of loving the self; freeing the self. Of going beyond the limitations of the suffering of experiential pain and hurt. Forgiveness is one of these gifts. The gift of freedom from past sufferings bestowed through the capacity to love more than previously realized.
What is Forgiveness When Experienced Consciously?
What is forgiveness for? Particularly what is it for when we have the knowledge of forgiveness as a tool of consciousness. It is consciousness itself which allows for self-love from forgiveness. It allows self-love to be a part of the experience of the act of forgiveness to inspire growth and self-nurturing care.
Forgiveness is a natural expression of the depths of who we are. It’s the actual love we are. Forgiveness is intended to flow as a natural inspired energy of consciousness. It is necessary to apply it consciously for it to impart the growth that is intended to be given. When we allow ourselves to let go of the superficial understanding we carry of forgiveness in trade for an upgrade, consciousness will flow with more kindness. We can no longer then defined forgiveness without the mystical experience of it. This mystical experience is a product of a door which will have been flung open. It allows for more conscious to flow adding the ability to see in a greater way, with greater foresight. Now with greater sense of truth.
Forgiveness is inherent in all of us. It is the shutting down or depressing of the natural stream, of this flow of forgiveness. Forgiveness is a natural part of our life energy and when it is blocked it causes disturbances in our well-being, our life-force, our health. Ultimately this has caused our low-level consciousness of blame or victim-consciousness; which is affecting all levels of suffering in throughout all types of relationships.
When we look at children it is easy to recognize the natural flow of forgiveness of their innocent playful consciousness. Children don’t hold grudges. They have no understanding of it. So, they are taught it over time. We older ones may not even realize how our numbers of grudges grows into dislikes as we go into adulthood. The deep experience of forgiveness teaches us there is nothing to dislike. Just errors along the way of life. A varying in degrees of hic-ups from our misunderstanding of life. Life is simple as it is. No more no less than that. It is simple as it is, and in that it’s easy to realize not everything is for everybody. That is that, is simply the fact. So, you learn to let go and just leave as you increase your consciousness of life. Of course, that where forgiveness comes in. It is what can give life event more clarity. Which can easily be learned from. So, the errs can be erased as the knowledge is digested into who you are. Who you have then become. Moving you forward. Evolving you.
Therefore, what is there not to be forgiven, is it the suffering from the hurt or pain. The suffering from not letting go and holding onto the hurt and pain. The funny thing about it all, is that it seems as though that’s what is held onto; the hurt and pain. We have a lot we to learn from children as well-as nature. They both naturally allow the loving flow of forgiveness to be a part of their life’s expressions.
What is forgiveness for? Particularly what is it for when we have the knowledge of forgiveness as a tool of consciousness. it is consciousness which allows for self-love from forgiveness. It allows self-love to be a part of the experience of the act of forgiveness to inspire growth and self-nurturing care.
Forgiveness is a natural expression of who we are. It’s the love we are. Forgiveness is intended to flow as a natural inspired energy of consciousness. It is necessary to apply it consciously for it to impart the growth that is intended to be given. When we allow ourselves to let-go of the superficial understanding we carry of forgiveness in trade for an upgrade, consciousness flow with more kindness. We can no longer then defined forgiveness without the mystical experience of it. This mystical experience is the door which will have been flung open to allow for more conscious flow with the ability to see in a greater way. Now with greater sense of truth. Forgiveness is inherent in us all. It is the shutting down or depressing of the natural stream of this flow of forgiveness energy which has cause a disturbance in our well-being, our life-force, our health. Ultimately this has caused our low level consciousness of blame or victim-consciousness; which is affecting all levels of suffering in relationships.
When we look at children it is easy to recognize the natural flow of forgiveness of their innocent playful consciousness. Children don’t hold grudges. They have no understanding of it. So, they are taught it over time. We older ones may not even realize how our numbers of grudges grows into dislikes as we go into adulthood. The deep experience of forgiveness teaches us there is nothing to dislike. Just errs along the way of life. A varying in degrees of hic-ups from our misunderstanding of life. Life is simple as it is. No more no less than that. It is simple as it is and in that not everything isn’t for everybody. That is that, is simply the fact. So, you learn to let-go and just leave as you increase your consciousness of life. Of course, that where forgiveness comes in. It is what can give life event more clarity. Which can easily be learn from. So, the errs are erased and the knowledge is digested into who you are. Who you have then become. Moving you forward. Evolving you.
Therefore, what is there not to be forgiven, but the suffering from the hurt or pain. from holding onto the hurt and pain . The funny thing about it all, is that it seems as though that’s what is held onto; the hurt and pain. We have a lot we to learn from children as-well-as nature. They both naturally allow the loving flow of forgiveness to be a part of their life’s expressions .
A Divine Energy of Grace is the Consciousness of Forgiveness
Forgiveness is a graceful act of consciousness. An energy which embraces you and takes you by the love within you heart. Elevating it and adorns you with your own love. Deep forgiveness is a personal experience which guide you into a new nurtured space, for you to live your life in. A space where you don’t have to bear a burden any longer. You can stop holding a part of your breath, or even the holding of a beat in your heart.
The energy of forgiveness, the feelings experienced from forgiveness renews, and within that new discovered space of consciousness your life breathe new life into you. Filling you up love-fully. You’re no longer attached by a hold from a time in your past. You no longer have to face backward while looking forward. You now have the opportunity to face all the different ways, any way – because now you can choose more freely, see more clearly, and perhaps even feel like you can fly to any height.
Forgiven is a movement of grace. An energy of conscious, whose blessing is a healing to those who deeply experience the energy of their forgiving. That of being free…
Forgiveness is the innocent gift of children. For theirs’ is always about gifting love.
But for the children.
When we’re children life is always play, and there always seems to be some music playing, even if it not. Life is a wonder-full place, a magical kingdom filled with laughter and kind sweetness. Through the eyes of a child there’s a friendly sheen, a radiance, about everything and everyone. Everything seems to smile. Even the rain can be like sunshine to a child. Such divine freedom a child processes for the enjoyment of living its life. Children bring their inner-joyment, their brilliance, into life. They aren’t necessarily expecting life to give into them. In any case, due to the beauty of the attraction natural life has for children, it enjoys playing with merriment with any child. So, what has happened. What have we adult forgotten which has stained our perceptions of the gift of living our inner-joyment, which is our inner childlike brilliance. We must remember that we contain the most beautiful gift given to life. That is of being a child or even an adult being divinely childlike. Thank God for the children, they are the brilliant one’s who are holding the light of grace for the world’s innocence. Remember the gifts of being a child and reemerge each one into your life every day.
To Honor the Self is to live from a space of the innocence of a child.